People come to sites like these for
- Many different reasons
- Many different life situations
- with Many different
Expecting too much help
from any one source can be
Disappointing, Depressing, and Dangerous.
This site is authored by one
As much as I wish I could,
I am not going be able help everyone who comes here.
What is help
- Something that temporarily diverts you from attempting
- Something that temporarily reduces
awareness of pain.
- Something that Keeps You Alive.
It is important for you
to understand now, what I did not understand till
I was out of danger the last time I almost died:
We are often looking
for ONE BIG HELP. We want immediate, sweeping,
overwhelming relief and salvation from this terrible affliction.
But help isn’t
always just one big help – it can be lots
of little helps along the way, from all kinds
of people, and web sites, and TV shows, and movies, and dogs
and cats, and maybe God or the Universe, and people who love
us and people who don’t.
Remember, web sites and hotlines are
important measures to help you get through
until your treatment begins to work or until you find that
We need comfort and support,
but our main focus has got to be
of any kind IS or
will be, that one big help,
if it works and if it's the right treatment for
And for me, not
feeling "treated" everyday
that's the best help of all :)
Love and hope,